By Syeda, native Urdu teacher · UrduCraft

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Urdu is the language of poetry and love, so of course it has more than one way to say the most important sentence of all. Here is how to say I love you in Urdu, the difference between pyaar, mohabbat and ishq, and the tender words to call the people you adore.

Quick answer

How do you say "I love you" in Urdu?

The most common way to say I love you in Urdu is Mujhe tumse pyaar hai مجھے تم سے پیار ہے (say: MUJ-he TUM-se pyaar hay). You would say this to a partner or someone close your own age. For an elder, or for extra respect and warmth, use the polite aap: Mujhe aap se bohat pyaar hai.

Ways to say I love you in Urdu

MeaningUrduRoman UrduSay it like
I love youمجھے تم سے پیار ہےMujhe tumse pyaar haiMUJ-he TUM-se pyaar hay
I love you (deeper)مجھے تم سے محبت ہےMujhe tumse mohabbat haiMUJ-he TUM-se mo-HAB-bat hay
I love you (I, man / woman)میں تم سے پیار کرتا / کرتی ہوںMain tumse pyaar karta / karti hoonmn TUM-se pyaar KAR-ta / KAR-ti hoon
I love you very much (respectful)مجھے آپ سے بہت پیار ہےMujhe aap se bohat pyaar haiMUJ-he aap se BO-hat pyaar hay

A man says karta hoon and a woman says karti hoon. Everything else stays the same.

Tender words and pet names

Urdu is full of soft names for the people you love:

• jaan جان: "my life", the most common endearment. Meri jaan = my darling.
• dil دل: heart. Mere dil = my heart.
• pyaar پیار: love, used warmly for anyone dear.

Pyaar, mohabbat, ishq: three kinds of love

Urdu gently separates love into shades, and each has its own feeling:

• Pyaar پیار: everyday, affectionate love. For family, friends, a partner.
• Mohabbat محبت: deeper, tender, heartfelt love.
• Ishq عشق: intense, all-consuming love, the love of poetry and the divine. Powerful, so use it with care.

If you love these distinctions, you will enjoy these beautiful Urdu words with no English translation.

Saying it to family, not just romance

In Urdu you say "I love you" to parents and grandparents too, and it is deeply normal and sweet. Just switch to the respectful aap: Mujhe aap se bohat pyaar hai. For more warm lines to say to elders, see how to talk to your grandparents in Urdu. And if you are joining a Pakistani family, the marrying into a Pakistani family guide has the phrases for every moment.


🗣️ Roman Urdu mein

Urdu mein I love you kehna ho to sab se aam jumla hai: Mujhe tumse pyaar hai. Zyada gehrai ke liye Mujhe tumse mohabbat hai.

Buzurgon ke liye aap istemaal karein: Mujhe aap se bohat pyaar hai. Pyaar rozmarra ki muhabbat hai, mohabbat us se gehri, aur ishq sab se shadeed. Apnon ko jaan ya meri jaan keh kar bulaayein, dil khush ho jata hai.

Frequently asked questions

How do you say I love you in Urdu?
The most common way is Mujhe tumse pyaar hai. For a deeper, more tender feeling say Mujhe tumse mohabbat hai, and for an elder use the respectful Mujhe aap se bohat pyaar hai.

What is the difference between pyaar, mohabbat and ishq?
Pyaar is everyday affectionate love, mohabbat is a deeper and more tender love, and ishq is intense, all-consuming or spiritual love, the kind found in Urdu poetry.

What does jaan mean in Urdu?
Jaan literally means life, and it is used as a loving pet name. Meri jaan means my darling or my life.

How do you say I love you to your mum in Urdu?
Use the respectful form: Mujhe aap se bohat pyaar hai (I love you very much). In Urdu it is warm and normal to say this to parents and grandparents.

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